And that’s totally fair, but it’s the “you’ll never have to wait on anyone” vibe that reads so strongly as this person’s shitty friends having bailed on them way too many times.

This reads more like someone who’s been hurt than someone with a good point. I’m sorry for them, but I’ve done solo stuff and I generally prefer to do those things with my friends. Sharing the experience is a big part of it.

Also if your number isn’t in my phone and I can’t find it with a google search and you don’t leave a message I’m gunna assume that it wasn’t important and never engage with it. It has the same energy as “call me” like, you’re the one that wants to talk, dude!