• saigot@lemmy.ca
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        1 day ago

        If guy A meets someone irl and has a 5 year relationship and guy B has 9 hinge dates in that time that last a week then 90% of partners in this set are met via online dating, but you’d probably rather be guy A than guy B.

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            1 day ago

            In the scenario I described above 50% of current partners would be from dating apps and I’d still rather be guy A. Guess we’d need to see the actual infographic and who produced it to really say anything definitive.

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          2 days ago

          I agree, it does- but the idea of “Most people don’t use dating apps” just doesn’t track with what I have read, or seen anecdotally.

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            2 days ago

            Seriously. Physical third places have been dying for years. Of course people are going to meet their partners primarily online.

    • Baŝto@discuss.tchncs.de
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      Yes, I think the “traditional ways” of finding a partner (or rather places) are breaking away slowly. There are more ways to stay occupied. More choices in events/clubs etc to go to. That gives more freedom in regard to finding somebody that fits greatly, but also reduces the pressure to pick from a small pool or to run into others occasionally. The pressure to form a family to just make ends meet (division of responsibilities/labor; shared resources etc) should be lower as well.