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A series of Tweets.

The first shows no author, and reads:

What does deadname mean?

The second is by Logan☭Lycanthrope @Ciroctopussy, and is a screenshot of the Dragonball Wiki, reading:

in: Terminology

Deadnaming


Deadnaming is the use of the birth or other former name (i.e. a name that is “dead”) of a transgender or non-binary person without their consent

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The third Tweet is by reby @ rebyricks

Why dragonball wiki of all places

  • IngeniousRocks (They/She) @lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    6 days ago

    Names have power. To deadname someone, regardless of why their name changed, is to strip them of the power to determine how they are referred to. It should be just as offensive to cis people as it is to trans people. I had a professor years ago who said it was akin to using slave names to destroy sense of self, its a power play, and a fucked up one at that.

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      I think level of offense taken is up to the individual, but otherwise agree.

      destroy sense of self, its a power play, and a fucked up one at that.

      Which makes one question why woman have their name changed at marriage. I hate the “I now present Mr and Mrs MAN NAME” thing that happens at weddings.

      • IngeniousRocks (They/She) @lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        Cw: misogyny by proxy

        My religious education had an answer for that, plain and simple that “women are property”. The Master of the Estate and his Mrs.

        Its super gross, it actually made me feel kinda icky that my ex wife took my name, for that reason, but tradition prevailed over my opinion there.